Every night when I put Maya to bed we snuggle up before I kiss her goodnight. And every night we say the same thing:
"Let's snuggle before I leave," I say and wrap my arm around her.
"OK, a rainbow snuggle, like this," she says and draws a rainbow in the air with her finger.
"OK, a rainbow snuggle," I say and I give her a squeeze.
And then she fidgets and turns and chats and wiggles and usually complains that my arm is in the wrong place or that my head is on her pillow or too close to hers.
And then I kiss her goodnight, usually shaking my head. But, I wouldn't change a thing.